Walking with you to the deep heart of your relationship

The Conscious Relating Process

It involves:

  • being present to whatever wants to surface as we allow space and quiet
  • an exploration of the dreams, visions and wonderings that hover at the edges of your relationship
  • bringing clarity to what is asking to be expressed in the world through your relationship
  • being curious about what has got, and might get, in the way of this expression
  • celebrating your growing awareness, clarity and courage

It could also involve:

  • physical de-cluttering and organising of your home and/or work environments. This can bring clarity, calm, lightness, increased energy, a sense of relaxation and release, and gratitude for what we have.

If you do not live in the Nelson-Tasman area (NZ), a lot can be achieved by working virtually.



PRICING:  Sliding scale $60-150 NZ per hour. I invite you to attune to an inner sense of what’s right for you. Whatever you are able to pay will be gratefully received.

Kind words


Working with Margaret on what arises and presents itself in intimate relationships has been a profound experience. She was able to gently shepherd me towards those areas where I would not go alone, and to offer much loving-kindness to the estranged parts of myself. Her guidance was precious as I cruised the first months of later-life marriage.

— Nicola c-j

My experience with Margaret was very different from other counselling: intuitive, insightful and her use of alternate modalities gave clarity in why I/ we responded the way we did. She provided the missing piece in the puzzle(s) that essentially changed the course of my life.

  — Susan B